ARTHUR ASTBURY
some recollections by his daughter Connie, Mrs. Buckley -1967
My first vivid memory of my father occurred when we took a ride in a
sleigh out to the edge of Russell, where my father and I met the farmers. We were
delivering their groceries. This was the winter of the flu epidemic of World War I.
I knew that I was safe because our mother held sewed a piece of camphor in a little
bag which was hung around my neck.
My father Arthur Astbury, was a stern man, even to his children.
He was strict, reserved and he exacted a full day's work out of clerks and children
alike. Wasn't it natural that we should work for him, when he reminded us that all
his young life he had worked as an apprentice in a store in England. He often
recounted those early days of service, as well as the work his father performed as a
designer of pottery in Stoke-on-Trent! Stcaffordshire.
What brought my father to Canada we cannot stay, but he came to Russell,
where he worked for a storekeeper, and later bought the store from him.
He married Florence More, an English girl from
Gloucestershire who had come out to Canada at the age of seven.
The store my father operated was general in the sense that it
contained practically everything from crockery to harvesting supplies, and thrown in were
Hobberlin tailoring, Billy Burke dresses and a full line of boots, shoes, rubbers and
men's and women's wear, to say nothing of every conceivable kind of foodstuffs.
Rich are the memories of great quantities of Ontario and British
Columbia fruits in season, lining the aisles of the store, and water pails of Manitoba
wild Strawberries and raspberries, covered with dewy rhubarb leaves, at a dollar a pail.
Then there was spread to dry in the store attic seneca root, which the
Indians brought and bartered for their supplies. There were verbal agreements over
pulpwood which then appeared in the lot below our house. This pulpwood afforded another
joyous afternoon of watching while the sawyers transformed the lengths of poplar wood into
future warmth for the store and our house.
The store was both a chore and a source of pleasure to us as children.
There were the long conversations with clerks who came from as far away as Prince
Edward Island or as near as the Russell High School. We gained much in the way of
education when we overheard conversations with farmers who told of the vagaries of land
and weather, or caught a glimpse of the strength of character that brought the new
Canadians to our country.
From the moment the farmers and their families entered the state until
they departed, there was always an clip of excitement, and a glimpse of another way of
life. Butter, vegetables and eggs were traded for the staple foods or clothing
needed by the farmer.
In winter, the change in the mode of transportation drawn up in front
of the store went from cutters and sleighs to caravans with heaters and finally to the
automobile. This one difference alone made drastic changes in the merchandising in
the general store.
Sights and sounds enriched our life in the store, but perhaps scent
enriched it most. How can one forget the smell of fresh oiled floors, fresh ground
coffee, plug tobacco being unpacked the smell of new shoe leather, or coal oil.
My father believed in huge sales and consequently the store was often
hung with dozens of articles of every kind. There were bright yellow tickets on everything
and full page advertisements in the Banner. These ads, according to my father, were
enjoyed by his customers!
Changes came. There was a time that there were three general stores in
Russell, but after the Hill store burned down, business flourished for Smellie Brothels
and Astbury's. Then when Inglis was a beginning village, many farmers travelled the
shorter distance to the new stores. We recall that at that time, shoes sold for
twenty-five cents a pair in order to unload the over bought stock.
When the sands blew from the West during the so called dirty thirties,
there were many merchants in Manitoba who went bankrupt. How my father resented a
man who was sent from the Retail Merchants Association to being the store out of the red.
My father was a silent man about many things, bearing misfortune
with the same steady manner. Once we asked him about his parents in England. He
final admitted that he had been supporting, them for many years.
He loved his church. We were made to attend twice a day on
Sunday. Both our parents sang in the church choir for years, with Enid and Connie
joining reluctantly. Later, we appreciated the excellent training under Mrs. Lucas
and Mr. Cope.
My mother took great pride in the fancy work she created. We can
recall the excitement at Fair Time, when we went to see many prizes she had won that year.
Her work with the W.A. of the Anglican church was another joy to held. Her
ability to play the piano was not great, but many a young Fish Lake resident learned to
dance to her waltzes and foxtrots.
A man in a small town is something more than a person in a large city.
When his store burned, my father learned of the many friends he had. The
store was soon rebuilt on a much smaller scale.
When our mother died, father remarried. Maud Whitmore,
who had lived in Russell many years as a milliner, became Mrs. Astbury.
What of the rest of the family. Audrey is now
living in California in charge of a Bridal Shop, Enid worked for years as
a buyer in Montreal. Connie is still teaching Kindergarten in London. Ronnie
was in the United States for years, until he fulfilled our father's wish and returned home
to learn the general store business. He was killed while returning from Winnipeg in an
automobile accident.
Ronnie's wife, Day, and son, Ronnie did not wish to continue carrying on
the business, so they returned to the States. Ronnie junior is at present in Germany in
the United States Air Force. The store was sold, and continues to serve the people
of Russell.
What can one say of one's father? We could tell of his warmth,
his quiet humour, his philosophy his love of his Bible, his dedication to his business,
his faith in the farmers, his simple life of store. garden and Church. But this is the
story of many fathers, who have lived and died in this country of ours, each serving best
in his own humble way.
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